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I've been overweight almost all of my adult life and had always managed to avoid the issue of my weight. I've half-heartedly gone on the occasional diet (usually the type of diet which would allow me to carry on eating sugar) and then thrown in the towel whenever a birthday or wedding or weekend came up. Last Christmas I was given a DVD by a cousin showing footage from Christmas and birthday gatherings for the past 3 years or so. I was horrified. I couldn't believe that I looked like that. I had truly convinced myself that my weight problem wasn't so serious. The shock was almost too much to bear.
I had finally begun to come to terms with the fact that I had a problem, but I wasn't quite ready to change until... my boyfriend proposed. I thought about that DVD and realised that I didn't want to experience that same kind of shame and discomfort every time I looked at my wedding photos. I couldn't let it happen. Something had to change - for good.
I started doing all kinds of 'emotional eating' quizzes and reading books on attitudes to food etc. I learnt a lot about myself. I learnt that I crave novelty and can't stay on a diet plan for very long because I get bored. I learnt that I prefer structured plans to more free-form dietary changes because I'm a structured, rule-following kinda gal.
What I didn't learn was which diet would work for me in the long run. I knew my love of novelty could keep me going for a month or so with any plan because I enjoy trying and learning new things. I also knew that vague diets-are-the-devil's-work 'lifestyle changes' wouldn't work because I crave rules and structure (and frankly, I think it's pretty obvious that my good judgement can't be trusted).
So how could I give myself the structure I crave while still allowing for change and new experiences? Simple: I'd try them all until I found something that worked. I'd stick with something for a month and then, if the philosophy didn't fit, I'd move on to something else.
Well, now was the fun part: picking diets to try. It was so hard trying to decide which diet seemed the most plausible when I was trying to pick just one to stick to for a whole year. Now I had freedom of choice. If something sounded fun but unusual I could try it, and if it didn't work I could move on – no strings. So here was the plan:
Luckily, my oh-so-supportive other half (Darius) agreed to go on the diets with me, so no two-meal cooking.
Chereen Harding
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